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How will my healthcare counsellor help me increase my self esteem?
November 29th, 2009 | 
Author: I look like an average person but due to bullying and social anxiety throughout my life I feel like I look like an alien, my GP has arranged for me to see a healthcare counsellor who specializes in self image, how will my counsellor help me to gain self esteem and confidence and stop me from feeling as bad as I currently do, and what is an example of how they will help
Bullying is a product of natural selection. When you are being bullied personally you are a victim of others that have personal issues. When you are in this situation they are making you responsible for their feelings. When someone gets angry they have emotions up that have to be processed. In a subconscious way they are asking you to help them with their problems. When they see you it reflects their helplessness and it makes them angry.
Maturity is being able to control your emotions. When someone is angry this is a sign of immaturity. You may actually look like someone that could help them but they are imposing on you with force.
How will self esteem help? I don’t know how anyone will help you gain self esteem but all it really is, is a collection of personal accomplishments that help you feel great about yourself. This feeling will help you feel better about yourself and feeling confident is imperative if you wish for others to respect your personal space.
Pain doesn’t last long but shame does. Push yourself to be stronger and find a friend to share your experience. Please find a way to be able to laugh at yourself from time to time. Relax and find a way to feel cool. New sun glass? Clothes. Anything to get the ball rolling.
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What’s the best way to improve one’s self-esteem?
It is said that it’s possible to improve your self-esteem.But it’s easier to say than do.Any sensible suggestion would be appreciated.
Thats more simple than you may think. Our mind is very powerful. It believes what it wants to believe. And it can be used as a great tool in every aspect of our lives…
If you have a lot of self doubts, u will not be close to respecting urself very much and will fall in ur own eyes when u tend to compare urself with others.
Thats because ur mind firmly believes that u lack something and u can spend ages and not find out whats the missing element.
One of the easiest ways of making onself believe in something is self hypnosis. Well dont get scared by the term Hypnosis – u’ll get lots of cd’s and cassettes for self confidence, charisma and that kinda stuff. Listen to them for a month and u’ll see amazing difference when ur mind starts to have faith in ur own self.
Trust me.
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What the difference between Arrogance and Confidence?
What is the main difference between arrogance and confidence, for example if I say that my team is going to beat your team, is that arrogance or confidence
I get the two confused all the time, but I think arrogance is just an EXTREME distortion of "confidence".
Using your excample: Confidence is knowing your team is good enough to win. Arrogance is knowing that your team will win because they are better than every other team on the planet.
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What is the best book about building your self esteem ?
The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People are really good. They reinforce the positives.
Also, another amazing one is the Purpose Driven Life. It makes you understand you do have a purpose and that you do count.
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How to build self-esteem?
Hi, I have really low self-esteem, not just about my appearance (I actually have kind of good self esteem there) but just about my social self esteem, and stuff. So what are some good ways to build it? If you’ve had any personal experience that is helpful too. Thank you 
Try punching a toddler.
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